Learning How Not To Be An MLM Party Pooper!
Who You Are Being In Your Network Marketing Is What Is Happening!
I know this sounds a bit “airy fairy” but I guarantee that you are already talking to yourself in a negative way! What you say is affirming everything you are already living. The big challenge is to start to say and take action on what you want and not what you don’t want. First thing in creating a winning MLM mindset…
Don’t be a ”Party Pooper!”
Many people start throwing up all kinds of objections and problems for themselves even before they actually have happened. Its the perception that we have of our present. Remember many of the things that are happening presently are actually reaping the benefits or the results of past thoughts and actions. How can you change that? Next in creating that winning MLM mindset…
How do I create a better environment?
When it comes to business‚ are we actually figuring out who we want to focus on? Where do they often gather? Try turning your objections into advantages. What is great about this? — instead of Why is this happening to me? Sometimes if we actually look at it we May be able to gain some great new perceptions about things that are happening in our life. And‚sometimes it means to be willing to ”clean out some of our closets.” In other words‚ being willing to give up some things that don’t serve us anymore. Can you be okay with being uncomfortable in your mlm mindset…..?
Being willing to be uncomfortable!
Many people are afraid about being uncomfortable. But make sure you understand that anything new is going to be uncomfortable! There is a period of learning. We have to be willing to be in that state of uncomfortable in order to let ourselves learn what it takes to reach that level of competence. Remember the first day you got behind a wheel of a car‚ were you competent? No you were not. My mom used to accuse me of taking “square corners!” The key thing is that I didn’t stay in that level of incompetence. I continued to practice and learn‚ and now when I get into my car‚ I don’t have to think about it. Realize that really creating that winning MLM mindset is about personal growth…..
Business and Personal Growth in anything is all about new habits!
Anything you are now doing with confidence started out as something you had to learn about. That is actually everything. We never even talked or walked‚ and if you think about it you now have hundreds‚ maybe even thousands of skills today because you went through a learning process. So lets go from Party Pooper to confident Entrepreneur by being willing to be uncomfortable and being in a learning mode. Three words critical in your creation of your winning mlm mindset…
Orin Woodward says there are three things we want to be: Hungry‚ Honable and Honorable.
These are all subjects in themselves‚ but briefly to be hungry means to be willing to learn and willing to be uncomfortable. That makes us go out and seek what is necessary to get where we want to be. We want more than where we are presently. Honable‚ means to be willing to let our mentors‚ those we trust to help us mold ourselves to who we want to be. We can model the successful person we want to be. We are willing to trust. This is big‚ our society is very low in trust. In a book I am reading‚ “The Speed of Trust‚ by S Covey‚ when trust is low‚ business slows way down‚ it is bogged down because of lack of trust‚ no one get anything done‚ it all goes through a process and a contest.
Remember the problems for themselves even before they actually have happened. Its the perception that we have of our present. Remember many of the things that are happening presently are actually reaping the benefits or the results of past thoughts and actions. How can you change that to have a more winning MLM mindset…
How do I create a better environment?
When it comes to business‚ are we actually figuring out who we want to focus on? Where do they often gather? Try turning your objections into advantages. What is great about this? — instead of Why is this happening to me? Sometimes if we actually look at it we May be able to gain some great new perceptions about things that are happening in our life. And‚sometimes it means to be willing to ”clean out some of our closets.” In other words‚ being willing to give up some things that don’t serve us anymore. So think about all of these things when creating that winning MLM mindset!
So How Do We Apply That Today?
Of course do your due diligence and investigate and learn all you can. But understand that in being in a new business most especially on the Internet‚ we should expect that it will be new‚ requiring new skills we don’t have at first‚ and it Will Be Uncomfortable! And it will soon be second nature to have a winning MLM mindset!
